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Day 8 – When Worry Takes Over

Day 8 – When Worry Takes Over

Worry is a natural part of being human. It creeps in when we’re anticipating change, facing uncertainty, or replaying past conversations in our mind. But sometimes worry stretches beyond a passing thought; it becomes overwhelming, taking up mental space and making day-to-day life feel heavy.

 

When worry takes over, our bodies respond. We breathe shallowly, our muscles tense and our hearts race. Thoughts loop like broken records:

 

  • “What if…?”
  • “But what if…?”

 

Before long, the simple act of getting dressed feels like climbing a mountain.

 

If you’ve felt this, you’re not alone. Worry, in its persistent form, is often a signal that our brains are stuck in survival mode keeping us alert to danger. The problem is, in the modern world, the threats are rarely life-or-death. Instead, our minds zero in on work deadlines, social interactions, finances or even global events.

 

What can help?

 

  • Grounding exercises. Notice:
    • five things you can see,
    • four you can touch,
    • three you can hear,
    • two you can smell, and
    • one you can taste.

This simple practice brings your mind back to the present and away from hypothetical futures.

  • Mindful breathing. Try the 4 second box breathing action:
    • Inhale for four seconds,
    • Hold for four seconds,
    • Exhale for four seconds,
    • Hold for four seconds.

Repeat until your pulse slows.

  • Thought-challenging. When a worry arises (“I’ll never be good enough”), pause and ask:
    • What evidence do I have for this?
    • What evidence do I have against it?
  • Journaling. Write down your worries, then list what’s in your control and what isn’t. Let go of anything else.
  • Connecting with others. Say the words out loud:
    • I’m struggling with overwhelm – Sharing can shrink the size of worry.

 

Reflection:

What’s one grounding exercise you can try next time worry feels overwhelming?

 

This is a conversation for us all – people struggling and those who want to help and support.

 

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